Do you talk to yourself like this?

Have I become not🚫-social👥? (or am I fine?)

I feel so afraid 👻 to go out.

I feel so comfortable at home 🏡

I wonder why?

I have lost touch with so many of my friends.

Why can’t I remember anything from the past 3 years? It almost feels like a blip from the MCU universe when Thanos makes half of the population disappear (if you haven’t watched the Marvel comic-inspired The End Game then just read on and leave this bit)

Well, it's fine, I’m fine, I guess I’ll just chill. (is that what you think)

But what if I don’t remain involved, will I become obsolete? (is that something you don’t want to think)

What if I feel good just staying by myself? (lazy ass excuse, and you know it)

You are probably getting free food in a place for what you don’t pay for, or else you will never say that.

Nothing Wrong there? Right

No, Wrong!

What will go Wrong (will something go wrong?)

What I can think of is Water 💧, its made to flow, but what if you close it down in a bowl 🥣, and it stays there, over time it either evaporates 💨, or contaminates 💩.

Let the Truth Be Heard 📢.

The world will progress with you or without you.

Being socially connected is like an arm 💪🏼 or a leg 🦵🏼.

If you don’t use it you lose it.

You will lose your ability to be liked (I don’t mean on your Facebook but even on your Facebook, by the way, Facebook isn’t even a thing now, the new Players are Twitch and Discord), and you won't have much to bring to the table, especially if you are not on the table.

Most probably you will end up being a stalker 👀

How to fix 🔧 it? (can it be fixed? wait do I  need to be fixed?)

Just go back or step into new things.

Go back to your contact list 📜  and start calling and catching up with friends and family. Start going to gatherings and social events near you. Get those social media channels 📺 up and working back again.

Robert Greene makes this point in his book ‘48 Laws of Power’, the law on fortress 🏰 is very similar to your bedroom 🛌🏼 life.

Law 18: do not build  fortresses to protect yourself, isolation is dangerous

He talks about how you single out yourself as a target 🎯when you stay alone cut off from all the world and what’s new in it. It's better to mingle and move around with others and create alliances and coalitions (if you don’t build alliances then someone else will, against You)

let me give you a Quote(coz they help)

· If you avoid conflict to keep the peace, you start a war inside yourself -Cheryl Richardson

when you don't have an enemy, you start fighting with your friends, when you don't have either, you fight against your own self, and that is not where you want to be my friend i.e. depression, self-doubt, anxiety attacks, etc.

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